What do you want to do?

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Sometimes I think that I am going crazy!!! I read a lot of books, articles, and magazines about Boomers and what’s best for them in their “retirement years.” I watch the “experts” all gussied up on the television talk shows and review training videos that try to convince Boomers that “life isn’t over” and “they can still do lots of things” as they transition into retirement.

Now wait just a minute! I am not dead, nor on the verge of collapse just because I’ve had a few more birthdays that most! My mind, as well as my back still work, and I don’t want to be “put out to pasture” just because someone determined that a date on a calendar said it was time! And neither should you …

The question you should be asking yourself is not, “What do the experts say I should do?” but rather, “What do you want to do?” While it is true that many of us reach this time in our lives when our children are gone and we have more time to consider our own, but that doesn’t mean we should be considered “less productive” or “less valuable” than we have been before. As a matter of fact, my opinion is just the opposite. I think we can use this second chapter in our lives to do magnificent, brilliant, and incredibly valuable things, that have to this point been “back burner thoughts.”

The question is, “What do you want to do?” Don’t listen to the voices who tell you to stop living and start sitting. Don’t let the younger generations tell you that “you had your time, now its ours.” Keep you head up, keep dreaming, and make the second chapter of your life a truly awesome experience!

 

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What do you want from your “Chapter Two?”

For so many Boomers these days, the answer to the question, “What do you want from your “Chapter Two?” is a mystery, maybe even a luxury that they haven’t even considered. With the economy the way it is and with the need to continue to make a living so prevalent in our generation, can there even be a “Chapter Two?”

I remember writing about this subject several months ago. I got an emphatic comment back from a reader who said basically that she didn’t have time for what could be a “Chapter Two” because she was so overwhelmed with “Chapter One” and could see no way out of it. Her life was stuck and that was just that!

While I understand her frustration completely, I think that to live life without a vision of what could be condemns us in what is and right now that’s not a very pretty picture for most. Now, I’m not telling you to abandon your current responsibilities or to walk away from the present, but to just take a few minutes a day and see if, at this stage of life, you might want to consider something new.

Think of the who, what, when, where, why, and how of it and see if a vision of “Chapter two” might take shape. Then research what it would take to move you in the direction of that vision and perhaps be courageous enough to take the first step. (Remember the journey of a thousand miles begins with the first step.)

Be cautious, be smart, but also be brave. Our purpose in this world does not revolve around just paying the bills and watching another Star Trek re-run. Your second chapter awaits. What do you want it to be?